I read this quote this morning and thought it fit well with some of the themes discussed in Under the hero's cape and Outcomes: How to let go.
"Don't change. Change is impossible, and even if it were possible, it is undesirable. Stay as you are. Love yourself as you are. And change, if it is at all possible, will take place by itself when and if it wants. Leave yourselves alone. The only growth-promoting change is that which comes from self-acceptance." Anthony de Mello, Jesuit priest
Happy Canadian Thanksgiving and American Columbus Day! Louise